Reaching Sydney!!!

Have you ever realized that to really accept something new and to make it part of you and your life, you need to forget all old, atleast for a while? Have your mind ever stopped to think for a while? Do you feel different for a while when you visit new places? I realized so many things on the day, I landed Sydney. After coming over here, before I feel something, almost all of them to whom I talked and met asked me the same question "HOW DO YOU FEEL HERE?" For me the question was not as easy as it sounds. Because I feel different as it was entirely a new place for me. I was excited as well as nervous. But somehow, my answer to all of them was yes I am enjoying. And at the end the day, I realized my answer was correct.

Well, last week we visited some places of our friends and family members and I had heard roti, kapda aur makaan are still the basic necessities for life in India but as in Australia the necessities are quite different. So, the basic essentials of Indians in Australia are

1- Cooker

2- Lycamobile

3- Friends. 

You will sound wierd but it's true.  

Cooker- the multipurpose vessel to cook anything.

Lycamobile- the cheapest card to call India and to be in touch with friends and family.  

Friends- for hanging around the places. Arvind-Shivani, Mayank-Nandita, Chirag-Mansi, Gaurav-Nancy are our friends and their places are our permanant adda and treasure troves.

Anyway, since that day on, I am feeling like it's my reborn. My learning phase has started again. It's all about learning new things, living and adopting changes continously. Change is suppose to make life more interesting. Change is good. Change is the way of world. Change it comes and goes. Ever changing yet never ending. I am loving it :)

 I would end up saying, husbands are good fun I tell you, not like I have much experience but the one I have is simply fabulous. I am living a charmed life with Chintan. Thanks Chintan for making my world a better place.

I am trying to make the best myself I can be :)

I wish you all should know....

Over the years, I have come to know several things. I would like to share those experience with you all and thanks to all people who are always reading and admiring my blogs.

You have to be clear on your choices and your life priorities.

I personally believe that life is about choices. The choices you make eventually to shape your day, shape your experiences, shape your ideas and views, shape your life etc.Though there are some choice which you have no control like when and where you are born, the family in which you are born, your life in childhood, selecting school, city etc. But as you grow up you have to be very specific about your choices.

Education is the fundamental requirement to enrich one's life.

Education is something that cannot be share by anyone. Education is a long process in which not only you understand yourself but you identify your own patterns of thinking too. As compared to educated person, an ordinary person listen to other considerably then he listen to himself. So listen to yourself. It requires lot of thinking. Those who are aware of themselves obviously run at top, while those who are poor in knowing themselves automatically become followers.Everything in the universe is changing and so are you, so only education is the thing which keeps you going with this changing world.

To make tomorrow, you have to initiate something today.

You cannot know what future is about, but you can always control what is here with you.Your life should get certain shape and in absence of such a drive others will shape your drive. There are several things to consider when thinking of future.What kind of person you are?Are you happy working alone or you like to work in a team?Do you like to do same thing everyday or you love to explore new things? Each person is unique and your unique personality must be consider to make your future.

Remember,

What you want to be,

should be very well connected to,

What you can be,

Which should be connected to,

What you are???

Good marriage is more work.

I am married now and being married is a wonderful feeling.Miss Heta Soni is replaced by Mrs. Heta Bhatt. I am having a wonderful family and there is no set of rules that anyone has to follow, yet there are lots of expectations. The beauty of the family lies in the fact that there should be no strict rules governing it's working. Yes!!! Marriage is work. Well, hello!!! Don't forget that your spouse and his  family is human and you are too. To accept unknown people as your family members and to work out with your likes,dislikes,schedules, personalities requires some effort. Yes, there will be plenty of bliss and joy but marriage will make you work for it.

My Missing Shadow

I am trying to show the real incident which happened with me last week. I am bringing all which I had in my heart and in my mind on a deeper level. When this incident happened, I was craving for my man, my support, my help and my everything. Since he was not with me, even if he would have think to be it was next to impossible for him to be with me and thus I have given the name of the post as "MY MISSING SHADOW".

I discovered my man is thousand of miles away when me and my mother in law went for shopping on one nice saturday and we had been strongly hit by bike, within fraction of seconds we were thrown on the other side of the road. For few minutes, I was unconscious. When I open my eyes, I saw few unknown people were standing in front of me. When I tried to got up, I realized there were several wounds on my body and blood was flowing fast. My whole body was shivering. I was broken, disheartened and afraid to fight with the situation. My mind, my body, my heart was asking for some help. Without thinking much, my fingers automatically moved to call Chintan. I didn't think for a second how would he feel? how can he help me? What he can do from there? Will he be sleepless for the whole night after hearing this? I shed few tears while  talking to him. After talking to him, I got some courage to fight with the situation. He calmed all my fears. Though, I was not strong enough to fight with the situation time taught me everything. I feel like we have been blessed by god because apart from few injuries, we both are alive and still here to enjoy this beautiful and materialistic world.

It's easy to fall in any ship other than long distance relationship because you never know two people are putting a lot of work behind the scenes. Compared to short distance relationship in long distance you will not able to see your sweetheart, you can't express your feelings face to face and the difference in timings don't allow you to chat or talk for long hours. Our relationship is built on trust, understanding and determination to make it work under any situation, so we are sticking with it.

BEFORE MY WEDDING BOY COME, I WANT TO GET WELL SOON AND FOR THIS I NEED ALL OF YOUR BLESSINGS.

Happy Birthday Nirja didi!!!

Love is beautiful in any form.But it is more beautiful when it is for your near one. Here, I m wishing you nirja didi a very lovely birthday..HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Are you ready??? Well here it goes....happy birthday to you, happppyyy Birthhddaaayy tooo youu, happy birthday didi.....Many many happy returns of the day.May god bless you..Happy Birthday NIRJA DIDI!!!!!

The distance between both of us is not allowing me to wish you birthday with hugs and kisses, so I thought to wish you by this medium.You deserve tons of happiness, joy, gifts, love, surprises, blessings and lots of wishes on your birthday. May your life filled with million smiles. A very special one and only one sister-in-law that truly shines as bright as star.

I never met you, but i see something in you, that make you always alive. Need to learn lot from you. I value our relationship.

                             

May best days of your life starts today,

May your stars always shine,

May all your dreams come true.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NIRJA DIDI ONCE AGAIN!!!

Happy Anniversary

"Marriage is a pure relation and living with this relation  with your  loving partner is a great pleasure."

Our days slide into weeks and month and it's the time to celebrate our one month marriage anniversary.I feel like we are lovers, we have reached  our  first  big milestone  in  our relationship - our one month  marriage anniversary. It's very small  amount of time as compared  to  those being married 1+,10+,20+,30+,40+,50+ years, yet in this little space of this world it seems like a long time.

I  do  refer  you, Chintan  as  my  internet husband. Since, we registered our marriage  on this date  but we are building our relation through  internet. The day we met, was the  day I forgot everything and you became my future. One month ago two hearts became one when we  became husband wife. I am proud to call you  my husband and it means so much to me being your wife.It all happened so fast, so fast and we lasted and we will last for the whole life.You are  my hope and you are my future.I want to  stay forever with you to laugh, to cry, to create, to love and being loved by you for the rest of my life.All day long, the only thing on my mind is your name and how much I desperately wish, I could be with you right now.

Well, defining my current situation I would like to say that I am just remembering the day when me and my hubby would sit next to eachother. The fact that you are thousands of miles apart from me doesn't matter because you are always in my heart. No words in this world can explain how much you mean to me, and you are more than my everything. I love you with all my heart and always will.

Falling in relationship is easy but the hardest part is maintaining it. I can't promise that things would always be perfect, but I can promise that nothing would stop me from putting my whole heart into making you happy.

It's just one month down and forever to go.... 

Happy Marriage Anniversary to the best hubby in the world.

ALWAYS REMEMBER,

YOU ARE MINE,

I AM YOURS,

AND WE ARE US.

Oops!! we fell in love!!!

Connection between two souls can happen at any time, any place, in any age and in the strangest possible way so watch it out carefully, don't miss the opportunity. 

Today people make swayamvar as reality shows, don't know if they do find their true life partner on this. Actually, I am not a star, so for me there  was no such opportunity of swayamvar, so naturally I said yes to my parents for arrange marriage arrangements. You may think this would be the best possible way to search your soul mate but it is difficult till you find the correct one. As in love, it happen in seconds like DDLJ your eyes met, light is struck in heart or it may require little preservence. But arranged marriage style brings lot of variables to play starting from horoscope, education, looks, likes, dislikes, behaviour of parents, working position etc.
                       
So after initial announcements from myside to parents and relatives, they registered my name in some local as well as national matrimonial. So people started calling my parents and asking about me.They used to send their biodata as well. But as I never liked any guy's biodata, I never met any of those. I was simply going through wrong profiles. I was little frustrated. But God is always wise and someone somewhere is always made for you and waiting for you, so never worry.

It's all started when I got first call on my iphone "Is this Heta Soni?" and I hanged up the call as it was unknown and that was of my soul mate Chintan. Another call on my iphone, that was of my mother in law,  she spoke to me  for  few minutes and the conversation was like my son has arrived from Australia and he liked your profile   on shaadi.com and so we exchanged our  cell numbers, email id and biodata.Thanks to technology,we overcome distance by texts, facebook,  emails and  other mobile  applications. We were texting eachother  twice or thrice in a day just to know what  happened  in a day.  And hence we liked eachother biodata as well, we decided to take a chance, meet and see eachother what would happen, but I never expected we would like, love and marry eachother. So we had planned our meeting at Barista the coffee shop, the most happening place.

When we saw eachother for the first time, I never knew he was real and not a dream that i hoped to come true. The time we spent together at Barista was magical and I never wanted it to end. We  talked around  two hours about anything and everything.
(TIP: Even if you don't like the topic at discussion, don't show it on your face. Sit erect and show that you are keenly interested and throw some points that it may change the topic.)
When he asked me "Can we have dinner together if you don't mind?"  How can I say no, if man of my dreams sitting next to me is asking me for dinner.
(TIP: Eat well before you go to see your groom, because if he will ask you for dinner and if you are hungry, you will never deny and you will be in great trouble if he would be your wrong one, but luckily mine was the correct one.)

And so we had our dinner together and we departed. Next day, we confirmed by text that we liked eachother. And thus parents got involved and made all things possible. Finally, our marriage is on 12-12-12, the unique date.

If you find your love and got married that's really very nice, if you have not found yet that's still nice, God has some different plan for you. Till date, people keep on asking me   "Is this your love marriage?" My answer to them is "It is arranged with loads and loads of love".

FOR MY HUBBY,

I LOVE YOU MORE TODAY THAN I DID YESTERDAY AND I WILL LOVE YOU MORE TOMORROW THAN I DID TODAY.

Incredible Friendship

Many time you meet people who forget you,
Many time you forget people who meet you,
But once in a while you meet people,
You cant forget nor they forget you.
THOSE ARE FRIENDS............


I  am very  grateful for our friendship. For me friends must be trustworthy ,have some sense of humor and have something in common. I don't know what we are having in common may be MCA degree or Baroda city   or may be the same thoughts that we used to share in lectures on last benches or the panipuri and after that jalebi we used to eat at subhan-pura or may be the most funniest thing the weight that we started putting on since  our MCA started. We are really crazy and  still we are.Good friends should stick by your side through thick and thin, no matter  what.

left:shweta   middle:jimi   right:heta

There are many people that we meet in our lives but very few will make lasting impre-ssion  on  our  minds and hearts. I am happy for our friendship. But I am more happy that after 4 years, we are still same. There are  many moments which I wish I could roll back the clock and bring all back. Hanging out in nights, late nightcoffee, our photo sessions for refreshing our mind, bday parties and the assign-ments which we  used to write for the whole nights. I miss the talks we had,I miss the good times we had.Memories may fade over time, but the real great friends are forever with me.

Hanging out in nights on 15 dec ,2010

But now, life has went busy because we have started working.And now it is difficult for us to meet because we three are working in different directions in Baroda. So finally we have decided to meet once in a week at our favourite tea shop near akota garden in morning and after that we will move to our respective office. 


WE WILL BE ALWAYS TOGETHER...NEVER APART...
BEST FRIENDS FOREVER!!!